Guidelines for Married Morman Men: What is Sexy Lingerie? Can I Buy It Safely For MY WIFE?

A flirty black "Chemise"

Finally, some guidelines for making the right choices for your honey.

First, shop at Spark where only mannequins are used to display garments!!!

Chances are the T-shirt and shorts your wife wears to bed are comfy, but certainly not sexy. A gentleman once said that his now ex-wife used to sleep in turtlenecks. Okay, I think we all agree that’s not sexy lingerie. A lady once bought a chopper bra to wear on her husband’s birthday. The next day she squealed with delight as she recounted his reaction. Clearly, that was sexy lingerie for him. Her husband, in kind, surprised her by wearing a thong for her on her birthday. She did not find it sexy at all! The first lesson in lingerie is that what's sexy is in the eye of the beholder. He may have done better with a new bottle of flavored warming lotion!

One person can find a garment like crotchless panties sexy while someone else will find them disgusting. One may find sheer lingerie sexy while another prefers lace. So, how does a godly husband navigate this sexy lingerie minefield when trying to buy their wife a sexy piece of lingerie? Here are a few guidelines.

First, black is always safe. The color is sexy, but also slimming. Everyone feels good in black. Next, err on the more conservative side with your first purchase. Don’t start with chopper bras and crotchless panties. You are sending her the wrong message. Sexy, beautiful, desired, precious... those are the messages you want to send.

Begin with a sexy yet pretty negligee with lace and matching panties. Hands down, the Number One pick: a Babydoll. It's always sexy and makes everyone feel beautiful when they wear it... which is KEY for any lady to feel sexy and "in the mood". Based on the reaction and feedback to this gift, you can move up the risqué meter to more sheer and more revealing items. And, of course, there is wet look (looks like latex or rubber), but that should come later.

What to Look for When Shopping

It’s a lot easier if you know her sizes. If you don’t, take a look in her lingerie drawer and check the label on a bra—the size should be right there—34B, 38C, something like that. Panties are in sizes usually from XS through XXXXXL. Sometimes they’re numerical, ranging from about 5-28. Plus size ladies sizing is available at Spark! You might also take a peak at fabric types and colors and patterns (like leopard or floral)— especially on items she wears all the time.

Now you’ve got the critical info— what to buy? Well, if you see quite a few of the same styles (babydoll, chemise, corset, etc), you can take it up a notch and choose a luxury item in that style. Or, how about buying her something you know she won’t buy for herself? Some suggest that thongs are the most comfortable panties ever, but some women disagree. Some won’t even try them. Let her try them out on your dime.

If you absolutely can’t find her sizes, you’ve got a few choices: guess and hope for the best (we don't recommend this), ask her outright, or buy something not quite as dependent on fit, like a silk nightgown or slinky robe. Spark This Marriage are very forgiving on sizing and almost always have a size range for a garment. This makes it easier to buy and feel comfortable with your choice of size. Don't forget that you can always get some edible lotion or tasty massage oil. These always "fit". ;)

Of course you’d like something you want to see her in, but if it’s too gimmicky or plain uncomfortable she might wear it for you, but it won’t leave the drawer more than a few times a year—and that's probably being generous. The key is to choose something that will let her know you think she’s special, but will also be comfortable for her. She needs to see herself as gorgeous or it just does not work. Many women are so hung up about body image that they don’t realize that, to the men who love them, they are hot, hot, hot. So if you bought her a blender for the holidays or her birthday, this is the time to go all out and show her how she looks in your eyes. (Caution- make sure you show her that it is not the lingerie that is sexy- it's HER. Lingerie is just the wrapping on her! Spark has great wrapping!)

If you would REALLY like to spoil her, get her a gift certificate for a larger dollar amount than you would have spent. Let her go crazy and and indulge instread of trying to save money. Spark This Marriage has electronic gift certificates for your marriage.

co-authored by T.E.
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A Passionate Mormon Marriage: How To Have It & Keep It

Passionate Mormon Marriage: How To Have It & Keep It

When we first become engaged to the woman or man of our dreams, we envision a certain amount of perfection that will follow in our marriage. We see our life filled with smiles, laughter, passionate kisses, maybe some children. We don’t dare imagine life without a few little bumps in the road, because after all we are trying to be honest with ourselves. What happens after we say “I Do” is where the rubber meets the road. All of our hopes and dreams we have separately, jointly and even unspoken ones… all join together. The brightness of a newly married life and romantic adventure wears off a bit. After years it may fade away completely.

 Why would this happen? Why is it accepted as part of the way things are when you get married? At Spark This Marriage, we reject that lie. We understand that marriage is a life long romance that requires us to be vigilant to guard it and our hearts. The enemy of our souls is seeking to kill and destroy and our marriage, Christian Marriage, tops his list of things to destroy. There are a lot of reasons why he does this. Mainly because marriage is holy before God and he hates everything called holy. Another big reason is that when we are married before the Lord, we are blessed, strong and bonded in unity. Literally that must make the devil’s skin crawl.

When we remember all these things, we should stand a bit taller and be ever more committed to protect and strengthen our relationship with our husband or wife. We know that satan prowls about like a hungry lion and breaking a godly marriage is pretty delicious to him. So, how can we strengthen and protect our marriage from that? It takes a hard and focused stand on the issue. We must eliminate everything, yes every thing, that comes between the husband and wife relationship. If our marriage is full of bickering there is a struggle for power in the marriage. That will take some serious denying of your flesh and giving God control. If we are spending too much time or too much money on “things” or “hobbies” then cut that out too. Sensual movies, sensual books, victorias secret (soft porn!) have no place in your marriage. Ever. Don’t fool yourself if you think you are not affected by it. Your eyes & heart should only be for your sweetie. God’s word is clear on the matter.

Our children, according to scripture, are NOT ahead of our spouse or the Lord.
The Biblical order to your priorities is:
1. God
2. Husband/Wife
3. Ourselves
4. Children
5. Other family, Friends, Serving in Church
6. Exterior world

When we are at worship practice 3 nights a week, playing cards or out with friends frequently, shopping for kicks, on the net chatting or facebooking, texting, at soccer practice & games, pta meetings, television, netflix and so on… we are spending way too much time NOT being married or a family. We have our priorities out of whack.

It then makes sense that we will have a cascading failure of our marriage and family!

If we take the time to prioritize our walk- God first, Our husband or wife second- then our life will shift back into proper focus. No longer will chaos, busyness, fighting, power struggles, passive aggressive remarks and behavior, sexual problems in the bedroom and our children’s behavior plague us. All of these things do straighten out if we genuinely turn all of this over to the Lord.

On the subject of our bedrooms, it is a taboo topic for some reason in the Church. Secret sin abounds in this area. It is not a place to manipulate, coerce or avoid and make excuses. The marriage bed is pure and holy and good and safe. A place of trust and intimacy. God says so in Song Of Solomon, “Drink deeply!” Passion and romance are very good and He wants us all to have it. When we begin to treat our husband or wife like they are a treasure to us, with honor, with adoration, we will see a change. Make an diligent effort and do it regularly. Progress may be slow at first, but keep praying and keep up the good work.
Your marriage is worth it. Every little step counts. If you need help, a fantastic book “The Love Dare” is available at the link below.

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Mormon Marriage: Lifelong Romance & Passion

A Mormon marriage is full of adventure and passion.
Around every corner is a new challenge. To be married and Mormon brings unique issues.

For example, we must keep our walk pure and righteous, we must be good parents BUT we are also commanded to be "one" with our spouses. Obviously that can be a trial at times. We should be working all the more hard to kindle the spark and to choose to be "in Love" with our husband or wife all over again.
In fact, we must choose this every day. One way this becomes easier is through prayer. No doubt when we humble ourselves before the Lord, we experience a change in not only our own hearts but our spouse and in the family over all. It really is miraculous.

Let us at Spark This Marriage be a part of your lifelong romance, you journey together. We have many tasteful and elegant items to choose from. Marriage books and dvd's, Latter Day Saint lingerie for both ladies and gentlemen, Romantic bedroom items like massage oils and flavored lotions and much more. Won't you make passion a priority in your marriage today?

Tasteful Mormon Lingerie and romantic bedroom gifts to spice up and kindle the spark in any godly loving marriage. 

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LDS Plus Size Lingerie, Mormon Plus Size Lingerie Online

Mormon Plus Size Lingerie Online

Most women don’t remotely fit into society’s ridiculous view of the lingerie model.  The average american woman is much much larger. She is classified as Plus Sized or Queen Size. However, lots of curvy ladies have always been happy with their body.  And just like it does for any woman, a sexy piece of lingerie still makes them feel beautiful and desirable and also makes their husband want more.

What is a voluptuous LDS woman to do? They deserve to feel beautiful too, not to mention that their husbands need spicy romance just like every other man.

The answer for them was to turn to Spark This Marriage online boutique.  They cater to the growing population of married plus size women who wish to purchase and wear lingerie.  The fact that there is no face to face contact greatly helped reduce the embarrassment they were feeling.  Also helpful is the fact that Spark specializes in this merchandise, so customer service is understanding, courteous and honoring.

The intimates are available in various styles allowing the woman to choose the style that is right for her.  No longer is a voluptuous woman limited to little more than a sort of department store gown when looking for lingerie.
Get something gorgeous, sexy, different… just like you.
Plus size lingerie now comes in all styles that normal lingerie is available in.  Thus the woman is in control and can choose to show as little or as much of her body as she pleases.   

As if this wasn’t enough reason to shop at SparkThisMarriage.com, they have the added bonus of privacy during the shopping process.  No more wading through a thick group of 18 year old girls, who thanks to never having a child can still fit into the size 2, only to be stared at and ridiculed. Now a curvy lady can take as much time as they need and find the lingerie that is right for them without rudeness, stares, whispers and giggles. 

With the beautiful intimates available at Spark, no woman should ever have to be ashamed of her body again.  She can purchase the lingerie that makes her beauty shine and her husband sweat from the comfort of her own home with no strange looks or embarrassing giggles.     

Women of America be proud of your body and be proud to buy the clothes that make your husband appreciate the added curves.  There is no shame in being happy, feeling attractive to your husband and making your man happy.  So, go straight over to Sparkthismarriage.com and purchase that nighty you’ve had your heart set on and prepare for the romance that will undoubtedly follow.

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LDS Lingerie: Flattering Lingerie For EVERY Woman

Question: What type of lingerie is best for me?

There are several styles that most flatter the womanly figure: Babydoll, Chemise, Corset and Bustier.

Babydolls and Chemise are similar styles. They are both short and fitted pieces of lingerie that are typically modest. To add a hint of mystery or seduction, you can choose a chiffon babydoll or chemise. They are perfect for a romantic evening, or a night of feeling pampered.

Babydoll:
If you feel like flirting, a babydoll is the way to go. Babydolls are fitted in the bust with a full skirt. As a result, it’s important to get the bust size right when purchasing a babydoll. Sometimes babydolls have a stretch bodice that makes it easier to size for full figured women. Babydolls are well suited to women with a pear shape as they hug your curves on top and fall gently on your hips.
It should be said though that the Babydoll really does flatter every figure.

Chemise:
Chemise, on the other hand, accentuates and creates curves. When you want to feel luxurious, a beautiful silk or charmeuse chemise will feel soft on your skin and hug your curves. For more comfort, you can choose a stretch chemise and still be pampered.

Corsets and Bustiers:
Modern corsets are much more comfortable than corsets of yesteryear. They are elegant, form fitting, sexy, and provide the slimming effect and bust lifting that most women look for in lingerie. They flatter every figure.

Corsets and Bustiers are the daring Mormon women’s lingerie. They are very similar in style, as both are boned and fitted on the torso. They have a very slimming effect on your figure. The major difference between a corset and a bustier is that bustiers often have built in cups for support whereas corsets do not.

Corsets and bustiers do not size the way clothes do, they size like a bra. You usually have a round the back measurement and a cup measurement, just like a bra but you are recommended to give yourself one size more around the back allowing for extra movement. The size noted for our corsets and bustiers is the band size, so if you where a 40DD, your bustier or corset size would be 40. If you want some extra room, you would order a 42.

LDS Romance! Growing And Falling More Deeply In Love

Strengthen your Mormon marriage and add some spice!

Every Mormon marriage can be full of fun, passion and romance, but it doesn't need to stop there! In addition, we each can have a marriage of deep friendship, honor, trust, peace and joy. It's not as tall of an order as you may think. Our LDS marriages are worth every effort to kindle the spark! It surprises a lot of people to hear that many marriage issues work out when we are more giving in the bedroom. It does not hurt to shore up other areas though.
After all, this is a lifelong romance and it deserves our attention!

These items have been specially chosen to help you both grow and fall more deeply in love with each other.

Simply Romantic Nights:
Igniting Passion In Your Marriage
HOT SELLING ITEM 

The Complete Husband
FOR SERIOUS MARRIAGES!
Your marriage will never be the same. It will only get better!

The Love Dare

WE ALL NEED THIS ONE!
Includes an interactive quiz!

Mormon Marriage Bedroom Advice: What Every LDS Marriage Needs!

Our main goal here at Spark This Marriage, is to help married people keep their LDS marriage protected from a p-rn-graphy saturated world and inspire them to work on their Mormon marriage in EVERY area.
Our vision is unique!

This is a subject we are passionate about.
It is the very reason we use mannequins.
It is also the reason we do not provide items that have ladies or gentlemen pictured this way on unremovable packaging. We provide tasteful classy items in a "visibly safe" boutique, free of nudity or graphic/offensive material. No nudity.

We believe our customers appreciate this extra effort and that is why they keep coming back AND tell their friends.

Mormon Marriage Romance Tip: Surprise & Romantic Results!

Question: How should I wash my lingerie?

Your sexy lingerie will last much longer and retain its color and feel if you wash it all by hand. We recommend you buy our Lingerie Wash or woolite. Our Lingerie Wash smells divine and properly cleanses your delicates. Line drying is much preferred to a machine dryer.

Not to mention, there is a certain sexiness generated when you see your lacy thong panties swaying softly in the breeze. It kindles a spark. It's romantic. It reminds our sweetie of close encounters past. It makes a heart beat a bit faster.

This simple thing makes a much bigger impact than most ladies realize!

We recommend you wash all lingerie before wearing.

LDS Mormon Men Shopping For Lingerie For Their Wife

Question: I want to buy lingerie for my Mormon wife. Help!

Men Shopping For LDS Lingerie:

Shopping for lingerie can be quite a daunting and embarrassing experience for men, even compromising yourself and Mormon marriage by being exposed to photos of women in a state of undress!

However, there is now a fantastic solution… buy from SPARKthismarriage.com! We have a vast amount of tasteful and beautiful lingerie available to buy from us, with a range of sizes, colors and design variations. For both ladies and gentlemen.

And no nudity or p-rn-graphic photos.
 Keep your eyes just for your gorgeous wife!

Spark This Marriage offers help with sizing, styles and advice via our contact page, so if you’re stuck just ask us. Every lady is different. We’d love to help. Don't forget the option of a gift certificate, they are always appreciated.

If this is a first time lingerie purchase, you might want to play it safe and buy something you know your wife would like and be comfortable in. There’s nothing wrong with having fun with risqué lingerie but you might want to make that decision together. There is a danger that she will interpret your racy selection as a reflection on her. Choose pieces that say “I love you” and “I adore you.” Remember fellas, the lingerie is for her not you.

LDS Mormon Marriage Tip: Set The Stage For Romance

Set the stage for romance.

Early in the day, send a note, text or email alluding to a night of special romance. Not too many details, just enough to make their heart beat just a bit faster.

When the time comes, light many candles of all sizes. Lower the lights and play soft music.
Make a trail of rose petals to invite them in to delight. Ask them to relax while you go prepare.

Let them wait in anticipation while you change into something more comfortable and sexy and return with a luxurious massage oil or lotion. Ask them to lie down and them give them a relaxing sensuous massage.

Enjoy the process. setting the stage and anticipation are very sexy and sure to kindle a spark!

Tasteful and Elegant Mormon Lingerie

Like the women who wear it, lingerie has many moods.

That's why Spark This Marriage caters to every taste, with collections that make every day—and every occasion—uniquely special.
Classic… romantic… dramatic… often provocative and always alluring.
For both ladies and gentlemen. So don't wait, pick up some goodies right now and inspire some serious sparking.

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